…to my dating page!

I’m a Euro-Californian gentleman who’s lived in a bit too many countries/states so far, and might be happy to either settle down in your city, or settle together and add more countries/states to the list.

Hopefully we’re a highly aligned match: thoughtful, caring, affectionate, fun, loyal, emotionally intelligent, looking for our special someone - kind-hearted, non-religious, and child-free (for the next 10 years at least).

If you’re looking for a committed but also FUN relationship, keep reading, and let me know if anything resonates (contact info at the end). I know this is a long page, but:

• it’s more efficient at getting to know each other than lots of small talk
• you can skip to the section you want (see the table of contents below)
• bullet points and expandable ▶’s make reading easier 😝

Basics / what I offer

• 5’8” / 173 cm - help me feel tall even though we know I’m not :)
• Never married, had two long-term relationships
• Early 40s, look like in the photos, and banked my stem cells at 36 for the option to rejuvenate to that age
• Location-independent IT professional with a Green Card and European passport. Digital nomad, so I can easily move and live in most places, though I do have preferences.
• 💻 Formerly at Google in Silicon Valley, now consultant at Anthropic (we beat ChatGPT)
• 🤨 Random facts about me (press the arrow…)
• Friends & community > having kids
• Pet-free (I like the peace of mind and freedom to travel) but open to non-shedding ones (or being “apartners”)
  • Had a Goldendoodle, and love other people’s pets! And these shedding ones.
• Innately kind, thoughtful and attentive. When I’m with you, I’m with you.
• Intellectual, hence an atheist (deconverted in my 20s), and with a growth mindset
• Adventurous (nomading the world since 2019, and many adventures before that too)