…to my dating page!

I’m a Euro-Californian gentleman who’s lived in a bit too many countries/states, so in December ‘25, I settled in San Diego. Not opposed to adding more countries/states to the list, with the right person.

Hopefully we’re a highly aligned match: thoughtful, caring, affectionate, fun, loyal, emotionally intelligent, looking for our special someone - kind-hearted, non-religious, and child-free (for the next 10 years at least, ideally indefinitely).

If you’re looking for a committed but also FUN relationship, keep reading, and let me know if anything resonates (contact info at the end). I know this is a long page, but:

• it’s more efficient at getting to know each other than lots of small talk
• you can skip to the section you want (see the table of contents below)
• bullet points and expandable ▶’s make reading easier 😝

Basics / what I offer

• 5’8” / 173 cm - help me feel tall even though we know I’m not, but high heels = ❤️‍🔥 :)
• Never married, no kids, had two long-term relationships
• Early 40s, look like the photos, banked my stem cells at 36 to rejuvenate to that age later
• Fitness, healthy living and longevity are important to me. Women who also lift are hot!
• Location-independent IT professional with a Green Card and European passport.
• (← press for details) Innately kind, thoughtful and attentive. When I’m with you, I’m with you.
• Intellectual, hence an atheist (deconverted in my 20s), and with a growth mindset
• Adventurous (nomaded the world 2019-2025, and many adventures before that too)
• Fun in all sorts of ways (I tell Dad jokes; sometimes he laughs)
• ❤️ languages (in that order):
  • giving: touch, quality time, words, acts, gifts (yes, all, really; I put effort into relationships)
  • receiving: touch, acts, words, time, gifts
• 🤨 Random facts about me (press the arrow…)